The Healing In Getting Away.
Entering college during the midst of a pandemic was a burden I did not foresee. The struggles of keeping up with your mental health, maintaining positive friendships, or simply getting through school work online. I reached a point where it felt like everything was falling apart and I needed to get out and out of my comfort zone. I had always planned on spending part of my college career abroad, and as the opportunity presented itself, it felt right to take it. There was a chance to spend part of my Summer abroad in Florence, Italy studying fashion, so I went.
Studying abroad meant finding new hobbies, creating new friendships, and learning tons of new things. I was lost in what career I would pursue in the future, lost in the friendships I was battling, and eager to learn more about the fashion industry. While away in Florence, I was able to fulfill all of these losses or voids, and then some. I created experiences that I will remember and cherish for the rest of my life and into my career.
After learning new aspects of the fashion industry in my Italian Fashion History class, I was able to narrow down my interests in this world. It felt freeing to know there was more out there than just your college town. Representing companies and planning events for fashion shows were options I had not thought of or considered before professors in Italy. I am forever grateful to have been given the opportunity to experience this career growth and encourage others to do the same if given the chance.
Going into college during a pandemic meant not everything was certain, especially close friendships. Shortly before leaving for Italy, I had felt more alone in my college town than I had when I first arrived. I was ready to find my people and kept an open mind about who I would meet in the next six weeks. Luckily, I met some of the greatest people to ever enter my circle. Endless laughs were shared around the Duomo, memories made on weekend trips, and special events celebrated even today after abroad was over. We all came with open arms and hearts and reciprocated love that I hold onto. Meeting people who match your energy is one of life's sweetest pleasures. The people you meet abroad, create relationships like you've never experienced.
Anyone who studies abroad will always claim it changed them. I am here to tell you that it can and it did change me. I came back more mature, open minded, cultured, educated, and at peace. It brought me perspectives I had not viewed before and people I would have never met normally. Taking this risk was important for my self growth and a decision I would not regret. I find it important to not stay static and to say “yes” to opportunities when given them whether or not you are scared. Getting away from home and what was comfortable, healed me in a way no place else could.
